Significance? Long-Distance Relationship (LDR)

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP?

Far from each other with your partner? Having a hard time with a long-distance relationship? What is the true significance of this one-of-a-kind relationship? Why did it exist on earth? - There are just some questions of some people who have this relationship and having doubt if they will enter this kind of matter. This article of mine will help you to understand how truly long distance relationship lasts long and what are the helps of this relationship in your personality.

In my own experiences, I already experienced this kind of relationship. Quite hard for both of us, but we still cope up with the problems that is correlated to it. Though our relationship is a same-sex, we are still belong to this part. But, of course that is my past, but I am sharing it to you. For me, this is the best relationship I ever had, I really don't know why. But it is a very challenging part in both of us, why? Because you need to have four special ingredient for you to survive on this relationship: Trust, Loyalty, Respect and Communication. Why trust? Why loyalty? Why Respect? Why communication? Trust, Is just needed in all relationship. You need to trust your partner whatever happens to avoid conflicts. You need loyalty for you not to be so very over acting when you are jealous, because sometimes through internet, some of them can see your daily updates. Example, you got picture with a girl, then your Girlfriend saw it, I'm pretty sure Jealousy will occur (Tamang Hinala :s). Then, you need loyalty for you to have a strong relationship. Respect, respect each others decisions, because you can't see him whatever he is doing. You need to respect him also in whatever is his business. Communication? This is the best ingredients/requirement for you to have a good and strong relationship, like cellphone, call each other. Internet, chat with each other, have a video call with your partner, so that you can communicate with each other. This are the main things you need to have and posses. When I experienced this relationship, I am reminding myself to posses this three, because I want that our relationship will survive. But, so sad for me, we just have 3months each other. :(

This relationship is just special, because once you see each other after how many years have passed, that day will be the best day ever in your life. Hot experiences and mutual respect is there.  That day? I assure that you will enjoy it. You won't care about everybody, you will just care about your Partner.

Love doesn't exist only to a relationship who can see each other everyday. It can be broad sometimes, but take note that every relationship has its own significance. A long distance relationship challenge your trust and loyalty. It will test how long can you chase temptations, just because temptations our always there, Ready to tempt you. If you have trust and loyalty, you won't do such things that can make your relationship ruined. Resist temptations and enjoy Life!

Always pray to God in every relationship you are entering, because He will be guiding you in comes to your decisions. Some decisions must be examined first, before concluding.  Every wrong decision can decrease trust, can ruined a founded relationship.

True love exist, its up to you how you will make it PERFECT! :)

Author/Blogger: Joseph T. Lobo; Full time Flirt♥

Jealousy? NO!

Satisfying Life?-JEALOUSY. NO FOR IT</3

Hello! I just want to share something about me♥

It's nice to have a great time and having a good time in school, with your friends and chatting along with them, with their partners (Boyfriend/girlfriend). Its quite hard for my part. I just don't have my own Partner :(. But, Something went on my mind and make me think.

"Do I need to have a partner just for me to be in with them?"

"Isn't being single enough?"

Haha. Lol, These questions made me think for a while, but suddenly I conclude that:

"Kaya ko to, Kahit wala akong syota."

Isn't amazing right? Kapag talagang marunong kang mag appreciate what life is, you don't need partners. You just need your family and your friends beside you & you must know how to love yourself.

I was quite jealous sometimes, sana meron din nakayakap saken or nakahawak sa mga kamay ko. (Kalandian eh no?) Well, mas masarap na rin sigurong single para kahit ano magagawa ko. I need to act O-K-A-Y, though sometimes its not. Fake smiles always occur. Pwede na rin siguro sakin ang mga dumating na tao sa buhay ko. My First Ex Girlfriend, Jasmine Anne P. Canthrell. My two ex boyfriends, Rhenz Fajardo and Johnrey Carranza Bautista. Well, okay na rin sila na kahit minsan napasaya na nila ako sa ilang months ng buhay ko. There is no perfect relationship exist here in earth, it's just the FAMILY exists to be your LOVE ONES. I must agree that there will be a perfect time for me, na magiging masaya at kuntento ako. Quite funny for me na ambisyosa ako minsan, kahit hindi nila ako gusto eh pinag-sisiksikan ko ang sarili ko. Hahaha, Stop na muna ako sa ganong paraan. Let it be na sila mismo lalapit saken. I don't have anything to boast with some people, I'm just carrying my name as Joseph "Jepoy" "Lobs" Toledo Lobo & my personalities. Masarap mabuhay sa mundo siguro ng may syota eh no? Yung palaging nasa tabi mo para suportahan ka, yung tipong araw-araw you make memories? Hahaha. Pero, mas masaya naman siguro if Lifetime partner na? :') I can patiently wait. Sabi nga ng mga kaibigan ko:

"Wag kang magmadali, darating din sya." -Anonymous

Whatever happens, I'll be waiting for that person. I am happy on what I have right now, with my friends, and with some of the people who influences me a lot. I know it's not the right time for me, dahil dalaga palang ako, este bata palang ako. I got lots of years to enjoy and to celebrate. I just need to relax and be glad for what I have right now. 

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Broken Family

A person from a Broken Family

This would be my 2nd blog post.
If you will ask me, It's hard. Very very hard. As a 17-year old teen, its just a big challenge for me to go on with the life without the support of my father. 


My mother have already filed her case of annulment with my father, 10 years ago, and still now, It's on process.


I'm always jealous to all to all families who are complete including their father, either the father is on abroad or not, but still the essence of being a family is there. I have been realizing in most of my life that my father doesn't love me anymore and I believe on that. Just because, he has already an another family. It's a big disadvantage for me, I don't have inspiration. But, I don't take it negative.
As my mother said:

"Hindi natin Kailangan ng suporta ng tatay mo, tayong dalawa makakayanan natin to."

That's why it motivates me to go with the flow of my life, without my father. I really like it. So, if you have complete family then make every moments memorable. Make it precious and everlasting. 


Have a great family tie!♥


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