College of Arts, Sciences and Education College Days 2012-2013

Hello there! Now I'm back gonna post all of the pictures and stories about our preparations about our College days! See you --- ♥

Rainy Days

Hello guys! Several days from now we are experiencing such heavy rains and such flash floods in different part of the Philippines. We are just very Lucky or shall I say that, I am lucky because I live at Angeles City kung saan mataas ang lupa at hindi ganun binabaha sa aming lugar. Rainy days is such a great time to bond with your family members, drinking coffee, playing inside the house and watching different movies that can enhance the family bonding. If you experience this, then you are lucky. Hehe :) I just want to say please do take care and mag-ingat sa ulan, dahil uso ang ubo, sipon at iba iba pang mga sakit :)

Joseph♥

Being Single.

Hello! For you? How does it feel to be Single? There are lots of opinions regarding this matter, opinions from different kinds of people who are experiencing singleness on their lives. There are some specific reasons why they are single, its either they have experienced such break-ups with their former partners or No Boyfriend/Girlfriend Since Birth (NBSB/NGSB). But, there are some reasons also like the aged people who didn't have their partner since teenage life until now, they are called "Matandang Binata or Matandang Dalaga", These are people who chose career or some important things on their lives rather than Love, still they are enjoying their lives as Single.

These article or blog post is created to conclude or observe how people survive from being Single. I think I'm one of them, Lol. But, I'm waiting for the right time and the right person who will change my life and enjoy it to its fullest. I have surveyed and asked some people who are close to me who are in relationship and single, what can they say about being Single or for them, what is the meaning of Single:

From: Shai
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Masaya syempre! Kase walang dagdag na Responsibilidad. Nakakapag-focus ka sa mga goals mo, and yung pinaka magandang reason is that you can be with anyone you want to, unlike kapag taken, more likely kayo lang magkasama, yung social life mo kapag single ka super saya :)

From: grieFe02

Yung feeling na ayaw mong madaliin para hindi magmukhang desperado. PERO!! hindi ganun yung gustong ipahiwatig ng isip ko kasi, tumatanda na ako, at hanggang ngayon NGSB, parang naiisip ko tuloy na baka iniisip nila na bakla ako, pero hindi, sadyang TORPE lang at yung tipong me mahal ka pero di ka mahal at me nagmamahal sayo pero hanggang kaibigan lang.. Sadyang masakit sa pakiramdam eh..

From: @agentyellow♥

For me, being single is HAPPY! :) Happy in the sense that wala kang iniisip na iba. Sarili mo lang. Pero ang pagiging single ay mahirap din lalo na kung inggitera ka. Siyempre maiinggit ka sa iba, na minsan o madala, you'll ask yourself, "Bakit ako walang boyfriend o girlfriend." Haha! Pero ako, masayang-masaya na single kasi hindi ko naman priority ang pakikipagrelasyon, for me, what matters most is myself, family, friends and of course serving our God. I'm still waiting kung darating sya pero sa ngayon, ayoko muna. Naniniwala din ako na mas masaya ang single kesa in a relationship. Enjoy Life! Enjoy Goya! Hahaha! Basta ang motto in life ko? "Wait patiently on God's perfect timing." Darating din yun! :)

From: @livingjet
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The feeling of being a single?... I can't answer this question, coz' I haven't beeing a single in my entire life. I mean, I have my friends, my family. I have my peers that make me feel that I am not a single.. That I'm not alone =)

THE WORD "SINGLE" IS SOMETHING SUBJECTIVE.

From: Anonymous
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Ok lang, mas better ang single dahil alam ko na mas makakapag focuse ako sa mga bagay na dapat ay doon talaga ako nagfofocus... And base on my own experience mas masaya ako pag single kasi walang istorbo, walang sagabal at hawak ko ang oras ko... Basta't masaya lang ang pagiging single pero minsan nakakamis at nakakainggit, hehehe... Basta't ako I'm waiting for the right person with permission ni Lord :) In addition pag single walang intriga.

From: Anonymous

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Ok lang na magin single kasi pag walang boyfriend mas lalo kang nakakapag focus sa study. Kapag single ka masaya, walang iniisip walang pinoproblema pero pag minsan malungkot din kasi hinahanap mo yung may nag-aalaga sayo, may nag-aalala sayo, yung bang tinatanong kung kumain ka na, kung ok ka lang, kung nakauwi ka na sa bahay. Pero habang single ang isang tao mahalin na nya ang kanyang sarili, ang kanyang pamilya at kung anong bagay ang nasa kanya =)

From: =)

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Being a single. Uhmm, Masaya kasi pwede mong gawin yung mga gusto mong gawin. Walang pipigil sayo and mas mararamdam mo yung presence ni Lord. As a christian mas masarap maging single kasi kahit single ka alam mo na si Lord sya yung boyfriend mo. And siguradong hindi ka nya iiwan, sasaktan at siguradong hindi ka ma bo broken hearted kasi super mahal tayo ni Lord. Actually, hindi pa ako nagka BF since birth. Pero kahit ganun masarap talaga ang feeling. 2 beses nang nagsing ng manifesto. and I know bnawat is satin may kapartner dito sa mundo =) so Kailangan lang natin maghintay, kahit matagal ok lang kasi siya talaga yung binigay ni Lord satin.

Those are the different comments and insights of some of my friends who I asked. Different meanings and different definitions we're used by them on what are their feeling of being single, no boyfriend or girlfriend since birth, etc.

Of course, as we all know, its the matter of their choice why now they are still single, because they want it, no one forced them. Its their own choice why the choose to be single rather than having a partner. But, in all decision like this, there are advantages and disadvantages, some thinks that being single is boring, but others don't. Some thinks that, being single is just living without enjoyment, other contradicts. That's what Love really affects the mind and heart of a human being.

Actually, being single is not boring, because there are lots of advantages that one can benefit from it. A person, once single, can enjoy life and has the freedom to do whatever they want (e.g disco, hang-outs, etc.), you are free to flirt other people. whatever and whenever, not unlike if you are involved in a relationship, whether different sex or same sex. You are limited in every actions you will do. You are monitored by your partner, you really don't have the freedom to flirt somebody because you know that you are committed to somebody, and you don't want to have an argument with your partner.

Singleness is a blessing from God. You can focus to Him more. You can prioritize worshiping Him, upon where your faith to Him is going stronger and stronger. But of course, others, don't focus on their spiritual, most of the people are prioritizing their works and careers. Just because they know, these is the only thing and way that can make them busy and focused. (Busy bee)

My advice, just enjoy the like and make everyday perfect♥

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Significance? Long-Distance Relationship (LDR)

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP?

Far from each other with your partner? Having a hard time with a long-distance relationship? What is the true significance of this one-of-a-kind relationship? Why did it exist on earth? - There are just some questions of some people who have this relationship and having doubt if they will enter this kind of matter. This article of mine will help you to understand how truly long distance relationship lasts long and what are the helps of this relationship in your personality.

In my own experiences, I already experienced this kind of relationship. Quite hard for both of us, but we still cope up with the problems that is correlated to it. Though our relationship is a same-sex, we are still belong to this part. But, of course that is my past, but I am sharing it to you. For me, this is the best relationship I ever had, I really don't know why. But it is a very challenging part in both of us, why? Because you need to have four special ingredient for you to survive on this relationship: Trust, Loyalty, Respect and Communication. Why trust? Why loyalty? Why Respect? Why communication? Trust, Is just needed in all relationship. You need to trust your partner whatever happens to avoid conflicts. You need loyalty for you not to be so very over acting when you are jealous, because sometimes through internet, some of them can see your daily updates. Example, you got picture with a girl, then your Girlfriend saw it, I'm pretty sure Jealousy will occur (Tamang Hinala :s). Then, you need loyalty for you to have a strong relationship. Respect, respect each others decisions, because you can't see him whatever he is doing. You need to respect him also in whatever is his business. Communication? This is the best ingredients/requirement for you to have a good and strong relationship, like cellphone, call each other. Internet, chat with each other, have a video call with your partner, so that you can communicate with each other. This are the main things you need to have and posses. When I experienced this relationship, I am reminding myself to posses this three, because I want that our relationship will survive. But, so sad for me, we just have 3months each other. :(

This relationship is just special, because once you see each other after how many years have passed, that day will be the best day ever in your life. Hot experiences and mutual respect is there.  That day? I assure that you will enjoy it. You won't care about everybody, you will just care about your Partner.

Love doesn't exist only to a relationship who can see each other everyday. It can be broad sometimes, but take note that every relationship has its own significance. A long distance relationship challenge your trust and loyalty. It will test how long can you chase temptations, just because temptations our always there, Ready to tempt you. If you have trust and loyalty, you won't do such things that can make your relationship ruined. Resist temptations and enjoy Life!

Always pray to God in every relationship you are entering, because He will be guiding you in comes to your decisions. Some decisions must be examined first, before concluding.  Every wrong decision can decrease trust, can ruined a founded relationship.

True love exist, its up to you how you will make it PERFECT! :)

Author/Blogger: Joseph T. Lobo; Full time Flirt♥

Jealousy? NO!

Satisfying Life?-JEALOUSY. NO FOR IT</3

Hello! I just want to share something about me♥

It's nice to have a great time and having a good time in school, with your friends and chatting along with them, with their partners (Boyfriend/girlfriend). Its quite hard for my part. I just don't have my own Partner :(. But, Something went on my mind and make me think.

"Do I need to have a partner just for me to be in with them?"

"Isn't being single enough?"

Haha. Lol, These questions made me think for a while, but suddenly I conclude that:

"Kaya ko to, Kahit wala akong syota."

Isn't amazing right? Kapag talagang marunong kang mag appreciate what life is, you don't need partners. You just need your family and your friends beside you & you must know how to love yourself.

I was quite jealous sometimes, sana meron din nakayakap saken or nakahawak sa mga kamay ko. (Kalandian eh no?) Well, mas masarap na rin sigurong single para kahit ano magagawa ko. I need to act O-K-A-Y, though sometimes its not. Fake smiles always occur. Pwede na rin siguro sakin ang mga dumating na tao sa buhay ko. My First Ex Girlfriend, Jasmine Anne P. Canthrell. My two ex boyfriends, Rhenz Fajardo and Johnrey Carranza Bautista. Well, okay na rin sila na kahit minsan napasaya na nila ako sa ilang months ng buhay ko. There is no perfect relationship exist here in earth, it's just the FAMILY exists to be your LOVE ONES. I must agree that there will be a perfect time for me, na magiging masaya at kuntento ako. Quite funny for me na ambisyosa ako minsan, kahit hindi nila ako gusto eh pinag-sisiksikan ko ang sarili ko. Hahaha, Stop na muna ako sa ganong paraan. Let it be na sila mismo lalapit saken. I don't have anything to boast with some people, I'm just carrying my name as Joseph "Jepoy" "Lobs" Toledo Lobo & my personalities. Masarap mabuhay sa mundo siguro ng may syota eh no? Yung palaging nasa tabi mo para suportahan ka, yung tipong araw-araw you make memories? Hahaha. Pero, mas masaya naman siguro if Lifetime partner na? :') I can patiently wait. Sabi nga ng mga kaibigan ko:

"Wag kang magmadali, darating din sya." -Anonymous

Whatever happens, I'll be waiting for that person. I am happy on what I have right now, with my friends, and with some of the people who influences me a lot. I know it's not the right time for me, dahil dalaga palang ako, este bata palang ako. I got lots of years to enjoy and to celebrate. I just need to relax and be glad for what I have right now. 

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Broken Family

A person from a Broken Family

This would be my 2nd blog post.
If you will ask me, It's hard. Very very hard. As a 17-year old teen, its just a big challenge for me to go on with the life without the support of my father. 


My mother have already filed her case of annulment with my father, 10 years ago, and still now, It's on process.


I'm always jealous to all to all families who are complete including their father, either the father is on abroad or not, but still the essence of being a family is there. I have been realizing in most of my life that my father doesn't love me anymore and I believe on that. Just because, he has already an another family. It's a big disadvantage for me, I don't have inspiration. But, I don't take it negative.
As my mother said:

"Hindi natin Kailangan ng suporta ng tatay mo, tayong dalawa makakayanan natin to."

That's why it motivates me to go with the flow of my life, without my father. I really like it. So, if you have complete family then make every moments memorable. Make it precious and everlasting. 


Have a great family tie!♥


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